Tim Keller, pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in NYC, has an insightful discussion about free will, pre-destination and God's omnipotence, using Romans 8 as his text.
Keller provides a clear, straightforward explanation of how we can have free will and that does not conflict with God's plan for our lives.
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