Relational Spirituality

SylviaJabez cried out to the God of Israel, "Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain." And God granted his request. 1 Chronicles 4:10

What makes this prayer so extraordinary? This one-verse prayer pictures Jabez's rich relationship with God. Jabez had a big view of God, consistent with the blessing prayer of Aaron (Num 4:24-26), the "Give me this mountain" prayer of Caleb (Josh 14:12), the "be with me" prayer of Moses (Exo 33:15, 34:9), the "keep us from evil" petition of the Lord's Prayer (Mat 6:13), and the assurance in Jeremiah 33:3 that when we call, God will come and answer.

The heart of Jabez was bent toward God, so this is a very worshipful prayer. Jabez desired the signature of the favor of God on his life. He saw himself as a partner with God, wanting God's best. God had a birthright for him written in heaven, so Jabez asked faith-sized requests. He showed great faith that God can do what he was asking, because all things are under his hand. He has all authority, he has all things. God is owner of everything, and Jabez was his steward. Jabez was aware of his dependence on God, for his favor and the sufficiency of his nearness.

Is your view of God big enough? How big is your God?

Join Jabez and pray like this:

Give me a double portion of blessings, and when they come, let me not misjudge them with my mind. Open my heart's understanding of Your ways. Let me not confine You to the levels of my comprehension. Move me from relating to You only with my mind to meeting You in the fullness of relationship in spirit and in truth (John 4:24).

Enlarge the boundaries I have enclosed You in, the limits I have put on You. Let me know the constant surprise of following You to unfamiliar places. Make me willing to follow You to narrow places, when I want to freelance my own path back to the broad and familiar place of my comfort zone or experience (Prov. 3:5-6).

Be with me. I want to know You (Jer. 9:24). You share Your treasures with me when I am desperate for You yourself, not just for Your answers. Open my ears to what I cannot hear at present.

Keep me from wickedness, evil thoughts or actions, and wrong (Jer. 15:21). Do for me what I cannot do. Except for what You permit to teach my hands to war, hedge me in from malignant, injurious, hurtful, unpleasant attacks that cause mischief, unhappiness, and pain. Give me grace to be strong in You, Lord. Victory doesn't depend on me (Exo. 14:13-14).

Let my sacrifices of praise, intercession, and obedience be acceptable to You, as I worship You with reverence and awe (Ps. 141:2, Heb. 12:28).

 

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Favorites

  • Prayer - Does it Make Any Difference, Philip Yancey +

    Contemporary classic that probes the meaning of prayer for 21st century believers, and provides extended, personal anecdotes from a wide… Read More
  • Blog of the Week: Mister Noah's Neighborhood: Philip Yancey blog +

    Below is a wonderful blog by Philip Yancey--see the link at the end of the posting. Mister Noah's Neighborhood Posted… Read More
  • Why Not Give the Christians a Chance: Philip Yancey on prison ministries +

    Below is an excerpt from a recent blog post by Philip Yancey--a thoughtful examination of prison ministries.The link to the… Read More
  • The Winter Season of Faith: Philip Yancey's blog +

    The following is taken from Philip Yancey's blog. A link to his website is at the end of this excerpt.… Read More
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Hidden Blessings

  • Transforming this World: The Hope of Glory by NT Wright +

    Wright confronts the perspective that this world doesn’t matter, and that we live only to be in heaven. He shows… Read More
  • What is Good in a World that Defies Hope: a talk by NT Wright +

    This is the second part of three talks by NT Wright at Harvard University in November, 2008 on the topic… Read More
  • The Stream, the Lake and the River: NT Wright +

      Acts 2.1-21; John 7.37-39; a sermon at the Eucharist on the Feast of Pentecost, 11 May 2008, by the… Read More
  • Jesus in the Perfect Storm by NT Wright +

    Zechariah 9.9-17; Luke 19.28-48; A sermon for Palm Sunday, April 17, 2011, In the University Chapel of St Salvator, St… Read More
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